Personal Private Prayer

‘But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.’ (Matthew 6:6). These were Jesus’ words as he spoke on prayer to his disciples.

It seems today, however, that many people neglect this vital discipline of private prayer! Notice that Christ did not say ‘if’ you pray, but ‘when’ you pray, so as his children who love to keep his commandments, let us ‘pray without ceasing!’ The famous Puritan, Thomas Brooks, said, ‘The power of religion and godliness lives, thrives, or dies, as closet prayer lives, thrives or dies.’

As Christians, it is our duty to spend time in private prayer. Remember why Jesus told the parable of the widow who kept going to the Judge because of her adversary – ‘that men always ought to pray and not lose heart.’(Luke 18:1). Private prayer distinguishes us from hypocrites. If the Pharisees love to pray on the street corner, shouldn’t we love to pray in secret?

Consider the prayers of the saints in the Bible: Abraham, Moses, David, Daniel, Jeremiah, and so on. They could have brought out all sorts of excuses against praying, yet they continued to pray in faith and to wrestle with the Lord in private even when they were a prime minister, a king, or under a death threat! There is nothing more natural than to talk to a person who is with you and Christ said ‘I am with you always, even unto the end of the world.’

And private prayer is not only a duty, but a joy! It should always be a joyful thing for a Christian to do his duty to God (Ps 19:11), but there are special blessings to be gained by prayer, because we have a God who hears prayer! (Matt 6:6).

‘How much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?’ (Matt 7:11).

‘This poor man cried, and the LORD heard him and saved him out of all his troubles.’ (Ps 34:6).

‘O LORD, I pray, deliver my soul!...Return, O my soul, to your rest; for the LORD has dealt bountifully with you.’ (Ps 116:4,7).
There are countless other blessings to be obtained by prayer. Most of all, we are communing with the Living God, which, like no other thing, should humble us, show us our sin and point us to the remedy!

Ultimately, our motive for praying is that Christ may be glorified. Christ delights in hearing his beloved people speak to him in secret: ‘Let me hear your voice; for your voice is sweet.’ (Song of Solomon 2:14). Brooks says again ‘O sirs! If your hearts were more filled with love for would quickly know what secret communion with Christ means.’

With these things in mind, let us ‘Watch and pray, that you enter not into temptation!’

By Philip Mackereth

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  1. A good book to read about prayer is "A Call to Prayer" by Bishop J.C Ryle.


  2. Great article!

    Private prayer, as you said Philip, is vital in the Christian faith. Would you also agree that it should be the first thing we do and most important part of our daily lives? Private prayer times first thing in the morning helps to set us up for the day, and to keep us from temptation. When we are urged to 'take up the whole armour of God' in Ephesians ch. 6, the next thing we are urged to do is to 'pray always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit' (v.18). Constant and daily prayer will help shield us from Satan and his wiles, and also draw us closer to Christ. I find that if I do not start my day in prayer, I inevitably find myself more likely to succumb to temptation and am more likely to sin.

    Thanks again for the reminder of the importance of personal, private prayer!

    In Him, Rebekah

  3. Anna, thanks for your reccomendation! I am a fan of Ryle, he is well worth reading.

    Rebekah, yes, I think it is vital to start our day with prayer and worship to the Lord!

    2To shew forth thy lovingkindness in the morning, and thy faithfulness every night

    And Jesus was continually going to pray early in the morning (and in the evening)! (Mark 1:35)

  4. great article Philip,
    I totally agree with you, if Christianity gives meaning to life, prayer as the means of our personal relationship with God gives meaning to Christianity.
    The great thing is personal private prayer does not even have to be in a closet, it is a great encouragement to me to know that Christ is by my side wherever I go and I can always turn to him in prayer,just like Nehemiah did. perhaps this attitude of always speaking to Christ in our hearts is what is meant by "Pray without ceasing"? Certainly an attitude of lookuing to Christ always begins with a quiet quiet time in the morning though.



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